Before We Meet

Before our first date, a discreet screening process is mandatory.
Please take a moment to view the following so we can share our time together care-free and comfortably.
Thank you!


Courtesy & Dating Details


Thank you for understanding that security and peace of mind is my number one priority and is simply for my personal safety.

During the screening process your information submitted is solely for the purpose of viewing then discarded immediately. Any established provider, assistant, or agency will absolutely require the same without any exceptions.

A date who is invests a moment to briefly verify successfully and properly is someone respectfully courteous whom I happily look forward to meeting.

Alternatively, if you’d like to share your details more securely, it doesn’t get more confidential and discreet than ProtonMail.

Using a link and a password, any text or attachments will not only be password protected with end-to-end encryption but self-destructing, and read-only based.
Outside of screening I highly recommend using this email for communicating.

Please let me know or email me at the address below if prefer this way of screening.

Email: alessacastia@protonmail.com

– More info on the Switzerland based ProtonMail can be found on https://protonmail.com.

Please be sure to include your time and date preference(s) when you get in touch.

If you’re flexible or curious, feel free to ask for my updated availability. 🙂

If you have a feeling that we may be extending, please be sure to arrive prepared and let my assistant know. Mentioning this possibility before we meet is the best way to ensure my availability.

Should time seem to escape during our date and my schedule allow us to enjoy more of each others’ company, please briefly shoot an update over to Lauren.

Overnight Date (12 Hours)

Our sleepover requires 8 hours of catching z’s and an entire night of cuddling.

A One to Two Day Escape (24 – 48 Hours)

Uniting together for one day or more requires time for me to exercise and refresh to look and feel my very best.

A warm smile, a kiss on the cheek; That’s how I truly imagine us meeting.
If you have a little bit of a sticky beak and feel you’d like to spoil me, I’ve created a wishlist!

Please be sure to mention if you’ll be bringing any Wine, RosĂ© or bubbly. 🙂

*Wine Favorites: EPPA Organic Sangria (Red or White) or Cabernet Sauvignon

*Champagne Favorites: Chandon,  Moêt, Veuve Clicquot Vintage Brut Rose, Laurent-Perrier

Please be sure to view my donations before scheduling or getting touch for the first time. 

If we arrange a public date, kindly present a little tote or gift bag with your gratuity.

In the beginning of our date please lay your donation in an unsealed envelope in plain view on the restroom counter. That way we can easily begin to enjoy each other’s company.

Addressing gratuity during a date can create one very awkward introduction. Legally, discussing this can also be considered a proposition for intimacy. In this event, I may excuse myself to leave. 

Any questions you may have are more than welcome to be mentioned to my assistant, Lauren. This way there is clarity and we can enjoy one another comfortably.

Cleanliness is required. After leaving your consideration, please wash your hands. I am not a “Germaphobe” per se, but you may have recently touched doorknobs, elevator buttons, a cute Pomeranian, etc.

You are more than welcome to use shower facilities at any moment during our time together.

Unscented shampoo and cleanser is provided. While I may light scented candles and wear a hint of perfume, please let me know if no fragrance is what you prefer. Glitter is never worn at any time, I am very mindful of this given you may have somewhere else to be next.

Let’s respect each other’s time equally. Nobody is perfect and sunny weather can sometimes confuse other drivers. Please keep my assistant and I updated on when you’ll be arriving and drive safely.

At least 24 hours notice is required for all cancellations. 

As a selective, low-volume provider, cancelling last-minute can be especially disrespectful and will be taken into consideration when arranging a future date.

Discretion is paramount for me, please do not ask for photos including my face at any time. We must both value each other’s personal privacy equally.

You may not:

  • Use any explicit language at any time. If your correspondence creates any discomfort, we are not a match.
  • Record any audio or visual media content on any device and at any time. Audio and visual media includes, but is not limited to, photo and video.

Any technology that is capable of capturing audio or visuals must be turned off, covered, or tucked away.

If we will be meeting at a location of your preference, please be mindful of my privacy prior to our date.

Reviews are accepted via TER only. I would love for you to leave one and appreciate you sharing it with me before posting.

Some of our private moments I may prefer to keep between us.

Please be discreet with your details.


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Any time shared together is strictly between consenting adults above the age of 18 years old. 

No intimate activities are implied or condoned by the creator(s) of this web site. This site does not promote prostitution nor is this advertisement or any content therein an offer for such. Donation is for time and companionship only. Anything beyond that is a choice made between consenting adults and not contracted for by the site or its creator(s).